Loving couples: In a world where 40 percent of marriages end in divorce, you can't help but notice them. There they are, finishing each other's sentences or laughing in some dusky corner of a Chinese restaurant. They seem so wonderfully in sync, and they make the work of being a couple seem effortless. Of course, no intimate relationship ever is, especially once you factor in life's built-in pressures, like work deadlines, laundry, and your daughter's orthodontist appointments.
But, says Jane Greer, Ph.D., Redbook Online's resident sex-and-relationships expert, there are certain core values that make some marriages more intimate and resilient than others. You could probably predict the list: trust, mutual respect, commitment, and a strong sense of "we" in the relationship. What is surprising, experts point out, is that when you ask loving husbands and wives about the key to their devotion, over and over you'll hear the same things, specific habits that mirror these values. Learning these secrets can make your marriage closer too
全球統計,有40%的的夫妻,以離婚收場。這樣的情況,讓我們不得不正視婚姻問題。
婚姻幸福的夫妻,他們有一些核心價值且這一切能使他們的婚姻更親密更有活力。這些核心價值不外乎是:信任、彼此尊重、承諾同時了解“共同體”的重要性。
Ref. http://magazines.ivillage.com/redbook/sex/happy/articles/0,,284445_297104,00.html?par=msn|rb|rb|related%20%20%20?iv_cobrandRef=msnwomen
- Apr 10 Mon 2006 14:20
【甜蜜】Happy Couples 101
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